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April 17

山 西 的 男 人

 

山 西 的 男 人

本文作者:乔远生

 
站在这个社会变迁、风云际会的商业时代,中国社会正在重新塑造着新一代男人的精神世界,竞争、冒险和成功的梦想成为这一代男人心灵的写照。

    整体下的山西男人,善良、忠厚、朴实、内向构成其鲜明的人格个性,现代商业社会中男性所具备的特质似乎还距离他们很远,商品物化、金钱追逐的战火硝烟在黄土地呈现的是一片沉寂。山西的男人似乎对外界的繁荣都市、香车美人、百万富翁也颇为羡慕、渴望,但沉淀在他们身上太多的传统文化负重,很难激活蛰伏在他们胸中的雄风,一代晋商早已同“大红灯笼高高挂”中的乔家大院随风而去,“山西人会经商”的美誉在九十年代,只能在余秋雨《抱愧山西》凄美的字里行间,解读到她昔日的风采。现代的山西男人和往日精明的山西商人已相去甚远,精明、能干、富有、善于理财的商业头衔,早已戴在了上海人、广东人和江浙人的头上。这一代山西的男人身上,晋商的遗风已经荡然无存,他们禁不住历史长河的洗涤,人格中保留下来的是与黄土地抗争的疲惫与无奈,一部《黄河儿女情》的舞剧,已经把现代山西男人的精神世界演绎得活灵活现。

    沉闷与压抑是山西男人与生俱来的个性描述,我们除了在光秃秃的黄土地、数千米深的矿井中,看到那一个个结实有力的臂膀,一张张粗犷黝黑的面孔还洋溢山西男人原始的雄性魅力外,我们很难看到现代商业社会山西男人超越自我、奋力进取的一面,更体会不到为追求财富、张显能力而爆发出的个性自由与精神解放。他们太多地习惯了在娘子关内平庸、懒散甚至贫瘠的世俗生活。如果你有在山西境内乘坐长途公共汽车的体验,或在冬月里搭乘往返太原——北京的石太列车,拥挤的车厢中,几乎每个山西男人都在吸着劣质的香烟,清一色的黑灰衣服中每一个人的表情都是麻木的,他们木讷、无声地坐在那里,神情与窗外的荒山野岭混为一体,使人不禁感到山西的男人离现代人很远,他们不再是曾经走南闯北、敢冒风险的山西好汉,更不是拥有豪宅、钱庄遍天下的山西商人,他们只是白天为生计而奔波、晚上唱卡拉OK的山西男人,他们太满足于做一个现实而琐屑的男人,在现代变革的背景中,他们的责任只局限在养家糊口,男性的魅力似乎也只表现在生儿育女的原始生理方面。由传统文化或经济落后影响而成的沉闷与压抑的个性,使山西男人的人格魅力缺乏一种时代的壮美,整个群体的落伍与保守,给这一时代的山西男人的人格笼罩了一层苍凉的色彩。

    这个时代推崇的是工商精英。无疑,男性扮演了这一群体的主体。现今时代呼唤的男性已不再是政治意义的英雄、或银幕与小说上的男主人公,更不是一掷千金、浅薄的暴富,而是富有内涵、不断进取、追求卓越的成功男人,他们成熟理智,专业素养高,成为我们这个时代民族兴旺的脊梁,因此,从某种意义上讲,山西男人是一群失落的群体,虽然中国改革开放以来,山西也造就了少数以“炼焦倒煤”起家的企业家,但行业统治的局限与自身素质的不足,使得这一先富进来的群体与广东、江浙、山东等地企业家相比,并不能完全代表普遍意义上的山西男人。作为一个文化意义上的群体,山西男人需要重塑自己的形象,在商业社会生存空间,找回自己的失落。

    文化的遗传和地理的封闭,造就了山西男人在人格中天然地缺少一种叛逆与力量。虽然近代和解放后也有不少山西的男人走出娘子关,在历史上写下了不少令人荡气回肠的篇章。六十年代的陈永贵、七十年代的华国锋,成为山西人其实也是山西男人的悲哀。进入九十年代,山西男人在政治舞台的辉煌经要不在,取而代之的是精神世界的跌落。

    与东北男人相比,山西的男人平和、温顺,他们不敢像东北男人敢闯敢拚敢冒风险,看看闯海南下深圳的大阵之中,又有多少山西的男性呢?与广东男人相比,山西的男人过于忠厚懒散,他们没有广东人的精明勤快,也不屑于从小生意做起,看看全国的知名企业,广东人白手起家,创造了太阳神、容声、美的、万家乐、李宁等,而山西人唯一拥有的还是几百年前老祖宗给留下来搬不走的“杏花村”汾酒。

    与北京男人相比,山西的男人缺少幽默、大气。山西的文化造就不出“侃爷”,不善言辞、谨慎小心是这一代山西男人群体的共性,他们缺乏一种男人敢做敢为的豪放,男人的生活轻松与政治狂热,在山西男人身上变成了一种忍辱负重和“莫谈国事”的冷漠。纵然是对政治的各种野心,也转化成了追逐蝇头小利的嗜好。

    与上海男人相比,山西的男人没有品味,不懂浪漫。在传统农业文明中长大的山西汉子,表达爱情的方式还基本停留在赵树理笔下“二黑哥和小芹”相爱的行为模式的含蓄、原始。婚姻中“婚礼”物化的结果把男性赤裸裸地摆的了只是需要一个异性生儿育女的低层次,他们不可能也不愿意把对异性的追求和爱慕表现为送花,送巧克力或在富有浪漫情怀的街头携手漫步。不解风情是山西男人一生的不幸。这一点远不如上海男人会把外滩的长椅,淮海路的咖啡屋,英文的love,kiss与恋情紧密结合的一起,享受一种人生的品味。

    与江浙地区的男人相比,山西的男人精明不足,勤快不够。大事做不来,小事又不愿做是一代山西男人甘于现状,怨天尤人的缘由所在,也是形成其惰性的文化根源。江浙人可深入到山西穷困的县城,去给山西的男人做衣服,补鞋,搓背修脚,而山西的男人则宁可蹲在屋檐下晒太阳让外省人掏自已子已经干瘪了的腰包。按理说,太行山,吕梁山,黄土地的穷山恶水应该造就山西男人能吃苦耐劳,与命运抗争的天性,可是这种天性并没有走出“黄河一方土”的局限,宁可受穷也不愿意开故土的小农经济心态,把这种吃苦耐劳的秉性演变成了一种拒绝改变的顽固力量,毒化了山西男人超越自我,奋进变革的肌体,使他们成为一群远离现代商业,甘于贫困的弱者。

    其实,山西男人的天性中也不乏灵动与精明,看看深圳微缩景观“锦绣中华”中的大同云岗石窟,应县木塔,晋祠,恒山的悬空寺等,山西的景观数量可以说是名列前茅,而江浙的景观又有多少呢?可叹现代山西男人已经无法再像自已的祖先那样把聪明才智应用到商业竞争中来,心灵手巧,善于理财的天性只是在自已的家庭装修和日常的精打细算中显现出来。山西城里有知识的男人甚至都不如苏锡常的农民,江苏的红豆制衣,杉杉西服,春兰空调,浙江的鲁冠球,娃哈哈,不仅把山西男人引以自豪的老陈醋推向了市场淘汰的边缘,也把山西男人曾经有过的自豪和才华,送入了历史博物馆。

    未来山西男人能不能再像一代晋商那样雄风再起,纵横天下,这将取决于山西男人自已的选择。其实未来商业社会中的男人应该是没有籍贯的。成功的男人是一种精神与物质的境界,社会的开放与文明的推进将会跨越文化与地域的障碍,将世界所有的男人都放在一个起跑线上,到那个时候,你是哪里人已经显得无足轻重,重要的是你对这个社会有没有贡献。

    我是一个在山西生活了整整三十五年的山西男人。九二年离开故土,走南闯北,我依然是山西人。近日数次返晋,颇有感触,写下此文,权作对山西男人的重新审视。  

January 06

2008 维多利亚秘密秀场上的那些动人身影~

2008年的维秀虽然已经成为过去式,但是那些美丽的身影和动人的旋律却是依然留存在记忆之中。所以发一些东西,以资纪念。
 
 
当然最先发出的是本人的最爱——Doutzen Kroes
 

 

 

 

接下来这个也是个人比较稀饭的——

 

 

 

 

 

她的眼睛很有特色呵呵

 

 

 

漂亮的花仙子

 

 

 

 

棒棒糖~~~~很甜美

 

她挺漂亮的,身材也很好,但是没有什么感觉

 

 

 

这几个翅膀很不错

 

胜利之翼

蜘蛛精?

鸟人~

红宝石

黑白配

 

 

蝴蝶仙子

圣斗士。。。

 

November 25

Barack Obama's Victory Speech

 
 

 
If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is a live in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

    It’s the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen; by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the very first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different; that their voice could be that difference.

    It’s the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Latino, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled – Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been a collection of Red States and Blue States: we are, and always will be, the United States of America.

    It’s the answer that led those who have been told for so long by so many to be cynical, and fearful, and doubtful of what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

    It’s been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this day, in this election, at this defining moment, change has come to America.

    I just received a very gracious call from Senator McCain. He fought long and hard in this campaign, and he’s fought even longer and harder for the country he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine, and we are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him and Governor Palin for all they have achieved, and I look forward to working with them to renew this nation’s promise in the months ahead.

    I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on that train home to Delaware, the Vice President-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.

    I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last sixteen years, the rock of our family and the love of my life, our nation’s next First Lady, Michelle Obama. Sasha and Malia, I love you both so much, and you have earned the new puppy that’s coming with us to the White House. And while she’s no longer with us, I know my grandm other is watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight, and know that my debt to them is beyond measure.

    To my campaign manager David Plouffe, my chief strategist David Axelrod, and the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics – you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you’ve sacrificed to get it done.

    But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to – it belongs to you.

    I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn’t start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington – it began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston.

    It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give five dollars and ten dollars and twenty dollars to this cause. It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation’s apathy; who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep; from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on the doors of perfect strangers; from the millions of Americans who volunteered, and organized, and proved that more than two centuries later, a government of the people, by the people and for the people has not perished from this Earth. This is your victory.

    I know you didn’t do this just to win an election and I know you didn’t do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime – two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century. Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us. There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after their children fall asleep and wonder how they’ll make the mortgage, or pay their doctor’s bills, or save enough for college. There is new energy to harness and new jobs to be created; new schools to build and threats to meet and alliances to repair.

    The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even one term, but America – I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you – we as a people will get there.

    There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won’t agree with every decision or policy I make as President, and we know that government can’t solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And above all, I will ask you join in the work of remaking this nation the only way it’s been done in America for two-hundred and twenty-one years – block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

    What began twenty-one months ago in the depths of winter must not end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you.

    So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not onlyourselves, but each other. Let us remember that if this financial crisis taught us anything, it’s that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers – in this country, we rise or fall as one nation; as one p
eople.

    Let us resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let us remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House – a party founded on the values of self-reliance, individual liberty, and national unity. Those are values we all share, and while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, “We are not enemies, but friends…though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection.” And to those Americans whose supportI have yet to earn – I may not have won your vote, but I hear your voices,I need your help, and I will be your President too.

    And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of our world – our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand. To those who would tear this world down – we will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security – we support you. And to all those who have wondered if America’s beacon still burns as bright – tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from our the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity, and unyielding hope.

    For that is the true genius of America – that America can change. Our union can be perfected. And what we have already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

    This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that’s on my mind tonight is about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She’s a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing – Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

    She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn’t vote for two reasons – because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

    And tonight, I think about all that she’s seen throughout her century in America – the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can’t, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.At a time when women’s voices were silenced and theirhopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach forthe ballot. Yes we can.

    When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs and a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

    When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

    She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that “We Shall Overcome.” Yes we can.

    A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can.

    America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves – if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?

    This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time– to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American Dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth – that out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we can’t, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people:

    Yes We Can. Thank you, God bless you, and may God Bless the United States of America.

 

September 07

游记

1        11         2       5        6         8

 
 
 
 
 
12.5                                     10                                              12

 

                       13                                               4

 

     
 
           14                      15                               16
 
 
 
 
                              17                                             18
 
 
 
    7        9.5         9
 
 
 
 
 
   19             20            21        25
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
                        22   23              24
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
26                    27                                             28
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

29

 
 
对于旅行,照片无疑是一种最真实的回忆。
 
就好像拾级而上,追寻着照片的步伐
 
能够回到那个喧闹或者静谧的环境中
 
用并不高超的技巧
 
拍摄了自己眼中的风景
 
上海,杭州,苏州
 
三个城市间的一周的游荡
 
我发现我真正爱的
 
和自己想象的并不一样
 
我以为自己喜欢上海
 
但是我却热恋着杭州
 
也许下次的见面
 
会是在那雨后的西湖
 
断桥之上的宛若回眸
 
 

June 27

快乐

每个人都生活在自己的小圈子里面,也生活在和别人交织的大圈子里面。看到了生活的多个方面,体会了生活的多种色彩之后,好像心都不是像原来那样安静了。水波在一圈圈的扩散,如同对于人的不良反应一样。有的人的圈波动的大,有的人波动的小。但是有人却放弃了快乐的含义。无论是工作,学习,我们都应该学会让自己享受生活,享受快乐。每天是微笑迎接太阳还是哭丧着脸迎接太阳,是我们自己来选择的。

    常常有人在讨论生活的真谛,快乐的真谛。什么是真正的快乐?在我眼里,其实简单的不能再简单。就是此时此刻,彼时彼刻你感受到了快乐的感觉,身体觉得舒畅,眼睛里充满着光芒。那就是快乐了。有人会说那样的快乐肤浅,没有层次;有人会说,那样的快乐短暂,不会持久。但是其实人总是在为自己编织着各种各样的理由来抵抗快乐,特别不能让人理解。没有了痛苦的衬托,无法体现快乐的含义。快乐本身就是藏在生活的每个小细节当中,只要发现了就快乐一下,有什么不可以?做事情的时候严肃认真,但是在事情中间发现规律和方法,我们就快乐了。学习的时候有压力有艰难,但是在学习之中取得进步和鼓励,我们就快乐了。处事的时候我们有碰壁和阻碍,但是真心付出和坦诚相对了,我们就快乐了。快乐简单的就像喝下一口水。立刻沁人心脾。

    人们总是说,那样的快乐没有远见卓识,不是真正的快乐。就好像被故事讽刺了百年的井底之蛙一样,没有看到过外面的世界。其实我们哪里知道,那个可爱的青蛙是多么的享受井底水草的轻抚,水中浮游生物的对话,井底水中的凉爽,和抬头就能看到的那片只属于他的天空。偶尔飞过的鸟儿给他讲讲故事,星星月亮的倒影在水中婆娑。他的快乐单纯到也许我们复杂的人无法理解吧。而实质是他的快乐复杂到我们愚钝的脑子不能接收。我们并不排斥奋进,我们并不消磨意志,我们并不阻碍发展,我们并不强调享乐。但是我们强调快乐着生活,强调快乐着痛苦,强调快乐着前进,强调快乐着飞舞。因为不快乐的事情确实是太多了,为什么不多找一点兴奋点给自己,让久违的幸福的气息在身边围绕呢?

    简单不意味着没有价值,最简单的就是生活的真理。就如同《论语》一样。于丹说,《论语》教授给我们的都是最朴素的真理,而真正的大思想家不是高高在上的用繁复的语言吓唬人,而是真实的生活在我们的身边。简单的是心灵不是头脑,繁杂的是社会不是视野。

    静思 。

 

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子唯 吴wrote:
          哈贝牛也~~~
Jan. 1
子唯 吴wrote:
圣诞快乐
不 应该说
Merry Christmas!~
 
Dec. 25
Nan Wangwrote:

嗯。还是很有你的风格啊。
如果是景点就该写上“某人到此一游”并留下猴儿尿一泡作为纪念,笑。

请继续加油[正气貌]~

Dec. 21
JUSTIN WANGwrote:
: )
Dec. 8
keronwrote:
好充实的生活啊!不能直接回复是吧!对了你的背景怎么弄的呢?还有音乐?
Nov. 8
keronwrote:
我来了,不太会弄,教教我啊!
Nov. 8
英伟 张wrote:
背景图片很酷  蛮有个性的
Nov. 5
JUSTIN WANGwrote:
THE RETURN OF JUSTIN WANG
Oct. 22
Mагsんwrote:
 
   嘿嘿————
 那个笑脸很乖乖噢————————
音符
Oct. 5
michael wangwrote:
欢迎留言给我哦~ 
Aug. 15